My favorite (lesbian-friendly) strap-on dildos and harnesses

Today we have a blog resume! One of my greatest friends (* Sally *) helps me by writing this article with me. She already wrote on my blog (The ultimate list of lesbian sex toys) She is a lesbian and has practiced a lot with women and used sex toys with women. I thought it would be perfect to help me out and together we will bring you some of the best sex toys and sex advice.

(If you are a man who came across this article, do not fear because This article is all about anchoring sex toys for men).

But today! we want to focus on women and center this full article on nice women and making sure that all the sex toys that I mention are perfect for the female anatomy.

Sally considers herself an expert on this subject and is looking forward to getting into it. I once saw Sally’s collection of sex toys and his collection is HUGE I am therefore delighted to share with you all this knowledge about the strap-on, the harness and the dildo.

If you want advice on using a dildo, check out how to use a dildo.

My all-time favorite strap-on and harness

purple dildo and strap on harnessThis is the G-spot 7 inch strap harness kit that my friend Sally practically forced me to mention.

The harness is fully adjustable and will fit most women as it is fully adjustable up to 28 to 65 inches. The harness is very easy to put on and adjust and does not cause any irritation on the hips, it is a great harness for beginners and pros.

Now we can talk about the dildo. It is curved to position perfectly and slide to your G-spot, which means that with each push, it will push your pimples until you explode into a bunch of orgasm.

This strap kit also comes with 3 interchangeable O-rings so if you already have existing dildos, you can slip them into the harness and enjoy them with this kit.

The dildo is smooth, firm and smooth. It feels amazing when it slips inside you and thanks to the fantastic design of each push against your G spot sends you closer and closer to the edge of a spinal tingling, explosive orgasm.

The first time I used this strap-on

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Me and my partner at the time were really into the vibrators and clitoral stimulators, we were also always excited and we stood on top of each other. Although we are no longer together, I am still looking back when we used this strap-on for the first time with a huge smile on our face.

First, she wasn’t really in internal sex toys, she was much more clitoral stimulation kind of girl. She especially didn’t like realistic dildos, they just weren’t her taste, so when I bought this strap-on dildo, she was questionable.

I told her how desperate I was to try it with her and how excited it was. When she understood why I wanted to try it, she decided that we could try it.

After some intense foreplay (a lot of oral) she got attached, applied a lot of water-based lubricant on the strap-on and my already dripping pu ** y and slowly entered me.

It was incredible for me, the 7 inches filled me and as promised pushed against my G-spot with ease (better than any penis I have had!).

My girlfriend at the time kept up the pace and grew faster and faster in me until I could feel an orgasm from inside me. It was incredible.

We didn’t know at the start that you can actually slide a ball vibrator into the strap-on so when we found this out, I took my orgasms from 10 out of 10 to 15 out of 10.

My girlfriend was so thrilled that she had made me cum, it was so exciting for both of us and it opened us up to so many other experiences like this.

It is so much better than any other strap-on dildo that I have used

woman laying attractive laying on bed

After finding out how much we love strap-ons and dildos, we bought them whenever we saw one that caught our eye.

Yes, we found some very good ones (I left them below) but the the majority were horrible. They were either too small or too tight, the harness irritated the skin, they were too realistic for my girlfriend or they simply did not do what they had promised.

Our favorite strap-on and harness were just right awesome and worked really well for us.

Reasons why it was the best strap-on:

  • It was smooth and firm but it wasn’t irritating to go through your skin thanks to the silicone material it was made of.

  • The harness was so easy to use, there were no annoying straps or buttons, it swiped right on and was easily adjusted. We hadn’t even had a try before using it.

  • The 7 inches may seem a little intimidating, but they aren’t if you are excited and use a lot of water-based lubricant, you can easily relieve this dildo. These 7 inches were just perfect.

  • The way this dildo was designed meant that it was ideal for hitting the G-spot, it was designed anatomically for the female body.

  • The fact that it comes with 3 O-rings so you can use a large amount of other dildos with the harness was a huge bonus, especially because my girlfriend wanted to use something a little smaller the first time I used the harness kit on her.

  • Although we did not realize at the beginning if you have a ball vibrator, it can slide inside this dildo and you can take the sensations to a whole new level.

  • You can use this dildo vaginally or anal, it’s up to you. Both senses feel good, speaking from experience!

Other harnesses and strap-on dildos that I use

I wanted to give you an overview of what I like to use with my female partners, I like to try all kinds of things so that they all vary from each other. I am a midshipman for strap-ons and dildos and have never met a woman who has not tried it and who does not like it, so you should not be disappointed with my best choices.

I also wanted to mention the use of a double ended dildo, my friend Jess (who owns this blog) talks about using her double ended dildo in this article with her boyfriend but it can be used alone or with another woman.

unisex vibrating strap-on dildo kit with two peg dildosThis is the Vibrating strap harness which comes with a harness that is fully adjustable between 15 and 60 inches. This strap kit is non-intimidating, non-anatomical and delivered with 2 dildos (5 inches and 6.5 inches), 2 O-rings and a bullet vibrator, for excellent value for money.

The ball vibrator slides directly into the harness, which adds an exciting addition when using this strap kit. It vibrates against the wearer’s clitoris and sends vibrations along the dildo.

harness and strap-on blackTake a look at the Deluxe strap harness kit this set comes with two amazing silicone dildos which are textured for maximum pleasure.

The two dildos provided with this harness are very different, the first measuring 5.6 inches and the other a huge 8 inches, so there is something for everyone in this kit. They both feel amazing pushing inside of you, very filling and wonderful against the G point.

I also like that both dildos come with suction cup bases so you can enjoy hands-free fun on any hard, flat surface.

This luxury strap-on dildo kit also comes with 3 interchangeable O-rings so you can experiment with a range of other dildos.

mannequin wearing a strap on the harnessStrap harness kit with two jelly dildos designed with ridges, textures in relief and a tapered tip to take internal stimulation to a new level and make these amazing dildos in you.

The two dildos differ in size, one at 6 inches and the other at 8 inches very generous. This is an extremely easy to use strap kit, the dildos come with a flared base for ultimate ease and use.

The harness is also incredibly comfortable and easy to use, so there’s nothing to worry about in this area.

How to make a 100x Strap-On more amazing

I didn’t really know you could improve the strap-ons, the fact that there are hidden tricks out there for lesbians and anyone who uses strap-ons blew me away. Fortunately, my friend Sally is still helping me with this article and she gave me some of the best tips for making a strap-on 100 times more amazing.

The sexual position “Oh my f ** king god”

cartoon sex position

Finding a sexual position that you love is key. My favorite sexual position with a strap-on is doggy style, she feels amazing and it is so easy for the other person to penetrate into you and stabilize on you.

What’s also great about doggystyle is that you can use a vibrator on your clitoris with your free hand and if you are anal, you can easily play with both holes.

Doggy style allows the dildo to really get deeply of you and push against your G-spot, which is our main goal.

CUM together with this technique

strap on dildo technique

Mutual orgasms are intense, sensual and awesome. Being able to enjoy together is an incredible feeling that everyone should try.

It can be difficult to have an orgasm together when using a strap-on, so try these vibrant underwear.

The vibrator nestles gently inside the underwear and you or your partner can control the vibrations using the remote control. It is so perverse and allows you to both orgasm together and even try some perverse scenarios inside and outside the house.

Stop pushing and start licking and sucking my pussy

If your partner is having trouble reaching orgasm via his G-spot or if you just want to prolong the orgasm and everything feels amazing there, stop the push and take it in your mouth.

Bring out all your best techniques and make it wild with the combination of pushing and licking pu ** y.

Pour this silky lube on me and this dildo!

lubricate a dildo

No matter how wet you are and how horny you are, dildos and other sex toys feel 10 times better when using lubricant.

A small amount is all you need, but they make the dildo much easier to insert, more comfortable to have inside of you, and they feel so much better with lubricant.

Make sure your lubricant is water based as it is compatible with sex toys, that’s my favorite lubricant. Keep it next to your bed and whenever you feel dashing and know that you are going to take out a sex toy squirt a small amount for you and the toy and see for yourself how much it feels better.

OMG it’s so BIG in me

dildo size comparison

Any dildo feels good when it pushes in and strokes your G-spot, but I like to do something changing dildos during intercourse. For example, my girlfriend will like the biggest dildo, so I’m going to start with something small, prick it all down, then go to the biggest dildo so that she feels full and really gasping for change of size.

Changing the sizes is really nice and allows you to explore what feels best and pushes your G-spot to the edge.

Tie me up, spank me and whisper in my ears

bdsm whip

Some people don’t like this, but for those who do, it will take your experience to a new level.

Using restrictions, banners, flagellants and various BDSM objects, you will notice a huge difference in your sexual experience, just like your partner. Choose one of you to be the most submissive and the other the most dominant and go explore the perverse world of BDSM, restraints and submissive sex toys. Read all my collection of bdsm sex toys.

The Q&A strap-on

questions about the strap on the dildos

What is the perfect size dildo for beginners?

As long as it is not too big (I’m talking more than 8 inches), it should be fine. Go slowly, use lots of lubricant, and be patient if it doesn’t go right at first. If you are a beginner with anal pegging, start with something small (less than 5 inches). I have always found that I had to stretch my buttocks before I could go bigger than that. Go slowly, use lubricant, and make sure the person you are respecting your limits and understanding the pace.

Should I warm my vagina before using a dildo?

Foreplay is always excellent and can never hurt. It’s also fun to warm up and get wet before diving into something. You don’t need to engage in foreplay, but a little warm-up won’t hurt.

In which positions can I use a strap-on?

My favorite is the doggie style because it allows you to get really deep and is easiest for the pushing person as they can use you for stabilization, however, there is no really off limits position! Go with what makes you feel good.

Do you know any pushing techniques that help G-spot orgasms?

Everyone has their unique preferences, I enjoyed the quick and fast pushes that made me cum but my ex-girlfriend enjoyed slowly and steadily, ask the person you’re feeling good with and keep this rhythm, as long as you push and push against this G-spot, you will reach gold with an orgasm.

How do I keep my dildo clean?

Be sure to wash it according to the manufacturer’s instructions after each use. This is usually with lukewarm water, then make sure it dries properly before putting it away. Never allow dust and dirt to accumulate on your dildo without washing it as you can cause infections and bacteria build up.

pretty woman in transparent bra and pink cardigan