The Most Common Kinks Fantasies-Fetishes Everyone Has
I wanted to write something a little different today. In the book I am currently reading, the writer continues to refer to the folds of the main characters, he has intriguing fetishes and it made me think of other people and what turns them on that they don’t realize is fairly common.
I went to Reddit and found that most people are activated by the same kind of problems, of course there are some exceptions, but there are things that make us all feel guilty, but in reality most people are seriously excited by because, well, they are amazing.
Learning all of this made me want to share some of the faults that I have and some of the faults that I know that other people have and I wanted to make them normal by showing you how bad these faults are. “ taboos are really common and why they are fantasized and explored by so many people.
1). Anal sex (put it in the ass)
Anal sex and butt play, in general, are a huge problem for both men and women. I think it is because we are told not to approach the ass that everyone wants to approach the ass.
There are a few different folds associated with the butt in general, but here are the 4 common folds most related to the butt:
- Ass licking (that’s what happened during one night licked my butt)
- Anal sex
- Prostate play (my boyfriend used a prostate massager)
- Sex toys (anal plug, anal vibrators and pearls).
These top four folds come in different shapes and sizes and everyone can get into different types of things, but the overall buttock is a huge thing and something at least 2/3 people are thinking about doing. .
2). BDSM (I’m guilty)
BDSM / bondage is one of my biggest flaws, it really excites me and I touch on so many aspects of it and I’m certainly not alone.
These are some of my favorite crafts BDSM Tips and Techniques and fantasies. Just as with many of these flaws, there are so many factors that go into BDSM and it doesn’t necessarily mean that you like being tied up and whipped, there is so much more to it, although it is fun.
- Slavery – Bondage for me is being the slave of my partners, being tied, restrained and dominated by my partner or vice versa. my most used bondage kit.
- Domination and submission – Dom and Sub roles are often found when practicing some form of BDSM. It is the act of being the dominant partner or the submissive partner, just make sure to try both roles.
- Masochism – Masochism is when you find sexual satisfaction from pain or humiliation. A huge problem for so many people and most of them don’t even know it.
Other parts of BDSM
There are many different aspects of BDSM but I just wanted to include a few.
Enjoying watching a voyeur or being a voyeur is much more common than you might think. Voyeurism is the act of getting sexual pleasure by watching someone engage in sexual activity or coming down and having sex while someone is watching you.
These are just some of the ways people enjoy voyeurism:
- Sex on webcam
- Sex in public
- Sex in a sex club
- Sex while someone is watching and masturbating / watching sex
There are many online sites that allow you to watch real voyeurism and engage in activity with real people through online dating and groups.
4). Group sex and threesomes (My favorite 😍) – M / F / M, M / M / M, F / M / F, F / F / F, etc.
Group sex and threesomes are one of my favorite ways to get down. My boyfriend and I don’t do it anymore while we prefer simulate a trio with sex toys.
However, in the past we have been known to engage in serious trios and group sex activities and I can still come to my mind.
Even fantasizing about trios is a huge problem and can easily be reproduced by simulating a trio, but in reality, having a trio and having group sex is a whole different story and something that even your former neighbor did probably comes out.
5). Age Game
Go down by having sex with someone older or younger than you. It can be played between you and your partner as I mentioned in this role play ideas article, however, of course, it can’t really beat the real thing.
One of my biggest flaws is thinking about having sex with a much older man when I am 18 but I am over 18 and it is fair a fantasy that I like to keep at the back of my head and bring out when I sometimes masturbate.
Many people have this anomaly, they like to think about having sex with older / younger people and get by a lot.
6). Cuckolding / Cuckquean (I am guilty of this)
Watching your partner have sex and have fun with someone else is called being a cuckold or a cuckold for women.
I love this kink and it makes me really excited to have my boyfriend watching me being fu ** ed by someone else.
Being a cuckold or a cuckquean can also fall in the direction of degradation or humiliation and get out of it. Enjoy watching your partner have fun while you sit on the sidelines and be ignored and / or humiliated.
seven). Sexual humiliation
Where you feel like you’re not worth it and a piece of dirt or if you make fun of the person you have sex with and make fun of them.
This one is not something that really interests me but I saw someone humiliated in a sex club and I have to say that it was quite exciting and that 39; they were certainly having fun.
Sexual humiliation can also make its way into BDSM / bondage due to its energetic nature and many people end up getting spanked.
8). Pregnancy fetish
There are a lot of men who fantasize about having sex with pregnant women, they see it as an erotic phenomenon.
Many men do not find out that they have this fetish until their partner is pregnant and that they are more and more excited by this idea.
Some people even go so far as to buy pregnancy bellies so that they can play roles and fantasize about being pregnant and having sex with a huge pregnant belly .
9). Sex Toys / Fantasies Out Of The World
Sex toys and otherworldly fantasies are very common. Fantasizing about being a stranger or being visited by a stranger, disguising oneself as immortal, playing roles on mystical characters and creatures, all of these things are a huge problem.
These are just a few of the fantastic / mythical “out of this world” sex toys you can find:
ten). Big game
This is one of my faults, I love big sex toys and oversized things. There is something that makes me say that I am “full” and that I am stretching to the maximum and I know that I am not alone. Lots of people like to stretch and try to fill them themselves to the fullest and most of all because it’s absolutely amazing.
Here are some of the things people who love to play on a large scale enjoy:
11). Small game
The little game is a knot that refers to women and men who prefer small penises and sex toys. This is a fairly simple problem and the women and men who get by are masters of the art.
The peg refers to the elbow of female partners who want to penetrate their partner with a dildo. I wrote an entire article on what happened when i tried anchor my boyfriend.
The connection is made anally with a hand dildo or a strap-on dildo. Sometimes the male likes to be humiliated, disguised as a woman or simply to take advantage of the P-point penetration.
13). Cum Fetish (Creampie)
Having a sperm fetish consists of a wide range of different things. It can be guys and girls who enjoy the act of creampie, girls and girls who love sperm and want it in them, on them, on their underwear, in their mouth and pretty much everywhere else.
Having a sperm fetish can also involve making your sperm longer and fuller of semen by taking vitamins.
Those who have a sperm fetish appreciate sperm more than the average person and would not feel ashamed to have sperm dripping on their face and licking it with their tongue.
14). Anonymous sex
Having anonymous sex with strangers in clubs, bars, on Tinder, anyone anywhere. Having an alter ego and fu ** ing of random people is an elbow preferred by many. It can be a risky knot, but being someone else for the night and using them for sex isn’t as rare as you might think.
Having a crease of chastity means abstaining from sex usually with the help of a chastity sex accessory.
People wear these devices outside the house and inside the bedroom while being teased and punished for being aroused.
16). Ball stimulation
The ball simulation fold is intended for men who love their balls, suck, massage, dominate and play with and for women. Men’s balls love men and like to suck them, dominate them and play with them.
The stimulation of the ball can also be quite “rough” and the dominating person can apply pressure and pain to the balls to cause sexual satisfaction both for himself and for the man.
17). Double penetration
Double penetration is another of my favorites, I just like the feeling of having both holes filled. Now that my boyfriend and I are in a predominantly monogamous relationship, I can satisfy this problem and this need by using sex toys. (If you are in an open relationship, see my open relationship rules).
However, while the sex toys are amazing and make me cum with precision, there is something so hot about having sex with two real real men and enjoying exciting fun with two dicks.
Having a penchant for exhibitionism is all about going down when you are sexually exposing yourself indecently. This can be an incredibly risky problem, but on a small level, people are still getting away with it. Things like wearing a skirt so short that you can see your underwear, letting people see that you have a light garment, things like that.
There is a wide range of exhibitionism and this can range from little things like exposing your buttocks in a short skirt to exposing yourself at a party.
19). Mutual masturbation
Mutual masturbation involves watching porn together, masturbating together and using sex toys. Never really touch yourself, but touch yourself and go down while your partner is there beside your expectation to enjoy at the same time.
Mutual masturbation is great for long distance couples and naughty couples, it can be so exciting and it is incredibly hot.
20). Personalized dressing and role play
People who live out their fantasies with costumes and disguises are not uncommon and it is a great way to live out scenarios and fantasies that you could not have done otherwise. Here are some of the things people like to do when they dress up:
- Pretend to be someone that you are not.
- Pretend to be a fictional character.
- Professional role (soldier, police, prostitute, porn star, lawyer).
There are so many role-playing games to wear with different costumes and so many different scenarios that you can experience. If you want to start, start with something to grab like a nurse costume and go up to find other outfits and dress up items.
22). Sleep fetish
A sleeping fetish is those people who like to fantasize about having sex with someone who is sleeping. It is between two consenting adults, one of whom pretends to sleep while the other does what he wants.
Sometimes the sleeping part wakes up halfway and other times they wake up a little later and claim to have had an unusual dream.
23). Sexual ASMR
If you don’t know which ASMR it is when someone or something triggers some kind of brain orgasm in your head. This can be triggered by a soft whisper, clicking on their nails on a hard surface, eating and all kinds of noises.
Sexual ASMR is just like that but it triggers a brain orgasm with sexual ASMR chat, sexual noises,
Questions about these fetishes
I just wanted to clarify some of the more popular questions on some of these issues, if you have more, leave them in the comments below.
How do I know if my partner has the same fetishes as me?
Talk about it and let them know what you have and what turns you on, you might be surprised how open they could be to try them out.
You can also try Mojoupgrade application which allows you to both take a test and submit your answers anonymously and find out what faults and fetishes you have in common.
Which of these faults would you recommend to a beginner?
Honestly, I don’t think I can answer this question, as many of the above problems can be tried by a beginner. See what turns you on and go for it, I think something with which you and your partner are comfortable and which involves no one else would be the best.
How can I try these fetishes without ruining my relationship?
The best advice I can give you is to discuss it with your partner and see where his flaws lie and what he would be comfortable trying. The best way to not “ruin” your relationship is to try a fetish that only concerns you two and that is not too difficult, for example, mutual masturbation.