Definitive Guide To Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships

So what is DDLG?

What is the meaning and definition of DD / LG?

DD/LG is an acronym for Daddy Dom / Little Girl. 

DDLG in its core is a perverse age / role playing game between two consenting adults and is a close cousin of BDSM – Dominant and submissive relationships.

DDLG a NOTHING to do with incest, it’s a to play between two ACCEPTING

DDLG has many different nuances, from the most hardcore to the most vanilla.

Dad dom takes the role of the helper, the one who dominates and disciplines the little.

Little girl takes on the role of the sweet childish girl and regresses with age. The age can vary from a baby wearing diapers or a young teenager.

Little Girl is a submissive, she plays the role of silly and bratty girl, who likes to cuddle, play with toys, follow the rules, break them, be punished and so on. (although it can also work otherwise with dominatrix).

She gives control to Dad and hopes he will do what is best for her.

DDLG play
does not
need to be sexual, but it often creates extra arousal and excitement, which leads to more passionate sex.

Wink wink.

The game of age usually has fixed times, and people call it “Small space“.

Little space serves as a temporary escape from the daily responsibilities of adults, stress and boredom.

Plus, it’s fun!

He adds variety and Color to relationships!

The easiest way to enter the Little Space / DDLG room is to design specific scenes, wearing special outfits that clearly indicate the start and end of the room.

Usually Little is the one who has special accessories, like she was ordered to wear an adult diaper, use a pacifier, a cup, a sleepsuit, cute pajamas and go around with a teddy bear .

Here are some examples of DDLG scenes:

  • to be bathed and dressed,
  • using a coloring book, a snack with fabrics
  • ordered to go to sleep early and dad reads a fairy tale

DDLG may also include disciplinary actions such as punishment and tasks.

Sometimes Little’s mood changes quickly and she can be indecisive, bratty or in a bad mood.

For this reason, she must learn discipline and be punished.

Common sanctions could be:

  • standing in the corner
  • holding soap in the mouth for swearing
  • ordered to write the same line 50 times: “I will obey my dad and I will be a good little girl.”
  • spanking, paddling, flogging

Now when you got the quick definition …

There is still a lot to know. I created this guide to be the ONLY RESOURCE you need for DDLG!

What can also help is if you and your partner take this BDSM test to find out your sexual archetype.

This will help to understand each other’s sexual needs.

Skip using the table of contents in your most interesting sections, or if you really want to become a DDLG pro overnight, just book 15 minutes to read it all! 🙂

The REAL Introduction to DDLG

I have been there.

You hear about DDLG everywhere, but in addition to a simple definition of what DDLG is, it is virtually impossible to find a step-by-step guide anywhere!

How to play DDLG?

What is it really?

Is it a problem?

Is it BDSM?

Is it romantic? Is it sexual?

It’s so confusing, right?

Plus, some people confuse it with BDSM taboo stuff or even incest …

On this thought … watch this video to understand:

What is not DDLG!?!

I hope it finally lights up! (Binkie Princess is the most popular DDLG channel on Youtube).

Anyhoo …

So you want to spice up your relationship and perhaps hope that DDLG will make your love life more frizzy, more passionate and bring you closer.

Ordinary and old vanilla sex just doesn’t do the trick, does it?

(btw … an easy way to add variety is to try new sex toys together 😉


You are in the right place!

I have been there.

Before I got into DDLG, to learn more about sex and BDSM, my sex with my daughter was going down.

Yes, we had the sweetness and the sweetness, but we missed the passion and the variety of our love life. Up to DDLG.

DDLG has 50 shades so you can really adjust it to your needs and create your own shade.

These nuances are also the main reason why it is so difficult to understand the game Daddy Dom, Little Girl.

Some call it in the BDSM context, some play it in an entirely romantic sense.

If you check out BDSM books, some authors list more than 8 different types of Daddy Doms.

For the sake of simplicity, I separate DDLG into 3 shades:

  • Vanilla: This is where you don’t involve any sexuality in the role play, but just stay in the Caregiver and Little relationship.
  • Kinky: This is where you play the Dad / His little princess fantasy. Dad takes care of his little princess, but sometimes the princess is a little kid and then she needs a punishment that leads to fun erotic foreplay.
  • Hardcore (BDSM): master / slave reading. The master / mistress takes total control of the life of his slave, his responsibilities and his decisions. It’s the most hardcore power game, which can add incredible novelty to your life. But the basis is the same – it’s a matter of polarity – Dominant and submissive energies.

Related acronyms and DDLG definitions you should know:

ABDL – Adult baby / diaper lover

ABDL is a close cousin of DDLG.

It’s super popular, because nothing puts a baby in a helpless baby situation as an adult diaper.

The dynamics are the same as DDLG, just the ABDL game always starts when the layer is worn.

It’s like a little layer space serving as a clear start and end.

Example: Dad orders Little to put on his pullover for the night and the rest of the evening. This indicates that Dad is ready to play and feels like Little needs him.

CGL – Caregiver / Small

CGL means the same as DDLG.

The caregiver is someone who plays a dominant role – dom or domineering dad (domme mom).

Little is he who regresses in age and plays the role of a small submissive child (can be a man / woman).

Small space is the term used to describe the state of mind in which Little enters when she thinks and acts younger than she does. It can involve both Daddy Dom and Little Girl, but it can also include just the little one. “Entering the small space” means slipping into the childish mentality.

For example, Little can simply say: “I’m going to my little space. I will draw, color the book or organize a snack with my fabrics. ”

If Daddy Dom and Little play it, it would imply that Daddy Dom takes care of Little, ordering him to do some chores, but above all it is a question of taking care of his Little.

The main attraction of DDLG is the way women generally have so many responsibilities during the day, that they need this little space to escape stress and responsibilities. Being a silly and sweet little girl does this job wonderfully.

Dad dom – this term is used in both the BDSM and DDLG community. Papa Dom is someone who takes the dominant role over the little girl. Dom dominates and disciplines the little one.

The discipline includes the award of punishments and treats.

Little – little is someone who likes to pretend to be younger than she is. When Little is in the role / head space, she is in her most submissive, vulnerable and sometimes greasy mood. The small age is generally between 2 and 8 years old. It is a fun way for little ones to escape responsible reality and relieve stress.

BDSM switch – switch is a term used for a person who likes to change roles. He is sometimes dominant, sometimes submissive and has fun in both roles. They are like sex chameleons 🙂

As you may have guessed, there may be other combinations, but in this article I focus on Daddy Dom as a male and Little Girl – as a female:

  • MDLB – Mommy Dom / Little Boy (dominatrix … femdom)
  • MDLG – Dom mom / Little girl
  • DDLB – Papa Dom / Little boy

Note: For the sake of simplicity in the article, I will say Dad Dom, but it can also mean Mommy Domme. Likewise, I would say Little Girl, but it can also mean Little Boy.

D & S – Dominance & Submission, dom & sub

You will hear these terms the most in the BDSM community.

D&S are letters DS from BDSM.

But even more often, the dominant is called – DOM for short and submissive is called – UNDERto shorten it.

Oh, and I should also mention: Up and down , which some people use.

The top is dominant.

The background is submitted.

Dominance and submission can include age play, but it is a more general term to indicate how one person plays a dominant role and others obey.

The reason why the Dom & Sub game is so popular is that for a passionate love life, you MUST have polarity.

You need a clear leader and a clear disciple. This is the basis of sexuality – most women are attracted to alpha men and most men are attracted to submissive women whom they can cure and ravage.

Papa Dom needs a woman he can dominate, the same woman needs someone she can let go with, especially sexually.

There is all this talk about gender equality, but when it comes to sex life. Equality is boring, polarity is a must for incredible sex.

And sex is the cornerstone of a good relationship. Even if you are super gentle and supportive every day – in the bedroom, you both need polarity ..!

Slave master – This is not really part of the DDLG, but I wanted to mention it so that you get the full picture. It is the most hardcore role-playing game where the master completely appropriates his slave.

They are also called gorean (master slave) and kajira(a slave). This is where you have necklaces, a collar ceremony, training, a consensual contract between you.

This is also where you get involved with bondage, impact play, humiliation, degrading play.

Why do we do this voodoo – Why are DDLG and BDSM exciting me?

If you enjoyed spanking, punishment and role playing, you may wonder and feel guilty that such taboo things turn you on.

First of all, we suffer from years of conditioning, where the Church / Society says that sex is a bad and shameful act. This is exactly why it is so attractive.

We like to taste the forbidden fruit.

On the other side, we
variety . If you have had sex with the same partner in the same way for years, you will become less and less interested in sex.

The prostate milking someone? 😉

Kinks, BDSM, DDLG are the answer to that.

When you introduce new plays, new sensations, new accessories, new places or even new partners in your sex life, it comes back to life!

You can also try sex in public, tantric sex, vibrating panties in public … etc.

And I always say that sex toys are the easiest way to add variety.

Additionally, exploring deeper areas of sex play increases intimacy and connection.

For example, pain can bind you like nothing else.

Let’s say you play DDLG, you’re a little girl, you did something bad for yourself and your dad Dom knows it.

He decides to punish you and bends you over the knee.

It’s a painful ritual that gets the message across. This will release the emotions you have suppressed – you can cry.

Then, when Dad Dom hugs you in the follow-up, you will both feel more connected than ever.

In addition, pain and pleasure are a magic combination.

Have you ever experienced a runner’s high or felt an incredible moment of happiness?

Although there are many ways to enjoy sexually, people practice kink in order to get this natural effect.

The folds are great for closing your mind, releasing shame and feeling an increased sense of pleasure.

The DDLG game is so popular because it creates POLARITY.

We need someone to take control and someone to submit. We need the masculine (active) and the feminine (receptive) to achieve sexual balance.

When this balance is not achieved, passion dies and often people seek their needs outside of the relationship or they simply settle unhappy with porn … or eroticism.

Supporting Little in the DDLG game is easy, and like Daddy Dom – of course, extra polarity is good for relationships.

I can’t imagine any girl disliking having dad taking care of her.

Me and my daughter discovered that we naturally play with the elements of DDLG before we know what it is all about!

For example, Nastja sometimes cries in the shower like a little kitty – “Mau … mau … mau … burrito …” – which means she wants me to take a towel and dry it dry

At another time, when I brought her a toothbrush to clean her teeth, she opened her mouth and said – “Please … could you do it for me ..?”

And so I did it … and it was a lot of fun; D

It’s a super sweet and funny piece.

These little things add variety to relationships and are the little moments you will enjoy.

So don’t be surprised to find out you’ve already played some sort of DDLG!

But now…

If you want, you can take it to the new whooooole level! Read on! 😉

OK, you had an initial conversation – what’s next?

The step-by-step formula for playing DDLG:

1 – DDLG rules:Communication and agreement

2 – Small space : How to enter the DDLG stage game?

 3 – DDLG Aftercare & Report

There are the basics that you should include in your DDLG game.
Let’s go to each part one by one:

1 – DDLG rules: Communication and agreement

This is where you negotiate and discuss what you want your game to look like. This is the most crucial step, let me give you some ideas.

  • Define your age
  • Define rules, rewards, punishments
  • Set limits, safe words
  • Define the role of the little girl
  • Define the Daddy Dom role
  • Talk about the scenes, accessories and outfits you would like to have

Defining the appearance of DDLG in your relationships

It is important to create your own definition for your DDLG game, which will explain what you will do in the small space and what the small role will look like.

It could be something simple like:

“DDLG is something we play from time to time, where Little plays the role of a 6-year-old girl and Dad becomes a caregiver, who assigns Little to assignments, and can punish Little if she misbehaves.”

The good introductory questions to ask are (mainly for the little ones):

  • How would Dad and Little express their romantic affection? Could you keep it as a thoughtful game, include romance or mix it with sexual?
  • How often would you like to play DDLG?
  • Do you want to play it all, or do you prefer to just play things like sucking a pacifier or just wearing old-fashioned play clothes?
  • Do you want to play DDLG in public, where people could hear or see you? Would it be embarrassing?
  • Is there a special setting that brings Little Space in?
  • Do you like it when something unexpectedly makes you feel small? Can it be intentionally recreated?
  • When in a small space how will you behave?
  • Are you also short, helpful, moody, shy?
  • As a child, do you feel submissive to your Dom daddy?
  • Do you have a little personality different from your daily life? If yes, what are the differences? (same for Daddy Dom)
  • What clothes would you like to wear in the small space? (special pants, sleepsuits, diapers)
  • Would you be able to play DDLG without these clothes?
  • List 3 characteristics of the ideal Daddy Dom for your little one
  • Do you want to use diaper toiletries like baby powder, baby oil, diaper rash cream …?

DDLG rules and protocol

There are so many incredible possibilities for setting up rules and protocols in DDLG ageplay.

The lives of little ones are often defined by limitations, which are fun to break and punish.

You can set rules for Little Girl only or maybe Daddy Dom has to comply with some of them too, it’s up to you.

First, decide how you will address:

Name ideas for little girls: Princess / Bunny / Darling / Cutie / Kitty / Baby Girl / Angel / Boo / Sweet Love

Name Ideas for Daddy Dom:Dad / Dada / Master / Papi / Mister / Mr. Bear / Mr. Leather / Lord

Here are some examples of rules you may want to borrow:

  • Bedtime is 10 p.m. and when Dad announces it’s bedtime, you have to comply.
  • Daddy Dom address only as dad / Mr. Bear, etc.
  • Eat with pretty dishes and plastic utensils.
  • Always be well mannered as “Thank you” and “Please”.
  • When your daddy comes home, greet him with a hug, a kiss and a color photo
  • Hold your daddy’s hand as you cross the street together.
  • Tell dad what’s wrong when you feel upset about something.
  • When you are with dad, do not fasten your shoes or put on your own seat belt. And him to do it.
  • Do not drink or smoke.
  • Don’t swear, don’t talk to your daddy
  • Sit only in the back of the car.
  • Take only bubble baths, no showers
  • Sleep with a teddy bear.
  • Suck your paci while using a computer or watching TV.
  • Wear diapers in bed.

If the rules are too difficult to remember, you can also create a simple mantra that you refer to when you don’t know how to act.

Create a simple mantra rule

  • “Dad knows better.”
  • “Sugar, spices and all that is good. That is what I am made of.”

Daddy Dom can also just create a rule that Little Girl must obey for the day, like “You can only eat vegetables and fruit today.”

If you want to go further, you can create a contract like Christian did in 50 shades of gray.

BDSM contracts are popular in this community for agreeing exactly how relationships will work.

Another idea you could take from the BDSM community is the pass ceremony. Many DDLG fans like to wear pretty necklaces that indicate play and submission to their masters.

You can also sign an adoption certificate to make it official

Responsibilities of Daddy Dom

Papa Dom agrees to take care of the Little Ones and agrees to treat the Little Ones accordingly – teach, reward, punish and nurture.

Papa Dom clearly expresses his wishes and commands. He disciplines the little girl only out of a desire to improve her, but never out of anger or frustration.

Things Dad Dom could say during the play: The

  • “Because I said it”
  • When Little lets out a word of curse or gets too clever with him and he says: “look at your mouth”
  • When Dad tells Little to do something, he will say: “is going to be a good girl and …”
  • When Little tests Daddy Dom and gives Little the stern look and says “Dad doesn’t repeat things twice and doesn’t accept smart mouths.”
  • “It was not a suggestion.”
  • “Do you want to repeat that?


Responsibilities of the little girl

Little Girl agrees to obey Daddy’s rules at best.

Little Girl will inform dad of all of their perceived wants and needs, recognizing that dad is the best judge of how and if these should be met.

Little agrees to speak respectfully to Dad at all times. Little agrees to keep her appearance (clothes, style and hairstyle) in a youthful way during the game.

As for the treats and the time spent in front of the screen, Little gives up all rights for his own satisfaction and assigns them to Daddy Dom.

DDLG Punishments, Discipline and Humiliation

Now, we’ve hit the sweet part of DDLG, and something more bizarre?

Many people who play at the age are punished and humiliated.

Even if these words may sound scary, don’t worry. It is not about hurting anyone – it is a play.

The attraction for this perverse side is because they like the feeling of not being in control (or in front… like to dominate).

Someone else calls the shots, and that can be very comforting.

Discipline is how the submissive can feel submissive, dominant being clearly dominant.

Receiving discipline is a great way to show your dominant partner that they trust and will obey them.

Plus, it can be incredibly erotic.

Good questions to ask yourself are:

  • Do you like physical discomfort when you’re in Little Space, like spanking, pulling out hair, rough penetration?
  • Do you like emotional discomfort like being teased, refused, scolded or speaking rudely?
  • Should the sanctions be non-sexual, sexual or mixed?
  • Do you want to try to be punished by other tools like a wooden paddle, a belt, a whip, a whip …?

Safe word– if you are being punished, then it is a very good idea to establish a safe word. You use a safe word if your partner goes too far.

A sure and popular word is “Mercy”.

But even better, the safe words for traffic lights:

  • green: I feel good, continue.
  • Yellow: I’m on the edge, but keep going
  • red: Stop that.

With these safe words, Dad Dom can playfully ask during a brutal punishment – “What color is my little one?” Is she okay? “.

Few people can easily tell how she is feeling without interrupting the game.

Don’t worry if you don’t understand it all at the start.

The first few times will be annoying as with everything you do for the first time.

2 – Small space : How to enter the DDLG stage game?

Little Space doesn’t have to be rigid. This can also happen without any scenes, but in this case I’ll be talking about more deliberate games and full-fledged DDLG stage games 🙂

There are 3 ways to help get into Little Space:

  1. Through objects, outfits, accessories (example: layered – this is the little space)
  2. Through immersive role-playing and specific scenes
  3. Through hypnosis or guided meditation

4 – It happens naturally, there are no fixed scenes, Little naturally enters Little Space and it does. This is the best way, but may not happen initially.

Think about the kind of scenes you would like to experience.

Usually the easiest way to get into the small space is to do an activity – like swimming, doing the chore, watching a cartoon and then putting on a diaper for example.

Other items could be: comforter, goblet, baby keychain, sleepsuits, pacifiers, school uniform.

But don’t worry, at the end of the article there is the whole section on DDLG accessories and outfits 😉

Few popular scenes for little space are: dressing / undressing and bathing, feeding, doing household chores, coloring the book, making tea with cloths.

And here are some questions related to Little Space:

  • Do you want Daddy Dom to make all the decisions for Little When in Little Space?
  • Are there some places where you feel like a little girl?
  • Is there anything that could get you out of Little Space? Do you like making decisions? (a good tip for that … Little space’s answer: mix your food, look at your toes and mumble: “I don’t know.”)
  • What are the things you would like to do during the small space?
  • Do you have imaginary friends? Are you friends with your stuffed animals and your toys?
  • Does your little self have chores? Homework? If so, do you have a good attitude about it?
  • Do you like using DDLG to motivate yourself to do boring work like paying bills and being rewarded?

How To Design Your Own Little One Space: elements of the scene

The DDLG game will work best if you take the time to set the mood.

Use the five senses:

  1. View – take out your stuffs, cover the place with pink blankets, arrange your toys. Put on cute clothes.
  2. Sound – put on soft and silly music. YouTube is spoiled for choice, Disney Medley will no doubt remind you of your childhood!
  3. Odour – buy candles or room sprays that smell of chocolate, vanilla, cinnamon rolls .. or burn incense.
  4. To touch – diapers, a teddy bear or baby blanket can really put you in the mood for the small space
  5. Taste – this is where the adult lollipop comes in … or you get a candy that you associate with childhood.

So, what activities could you play during your DDLG game?

I included everything, from the most innocent to the most perverse and sexual 🙂

A massive list of DDLG Little Space activities:

Bake certain cookies – Create a game around candy making and decorate them. I know my ex-girlfriend has had a fun Christmas cookie baking session with her friend every year. I didn’t know it at the time, but it kind of looks like a little fun space!

Take a sparkling bath – do a great bubble bath, get the bubble blower, the floating rubber duck and you might consider getting a cute scrub.

If you can top it off with a girly tower, you’re in gold!

Pigtail making and hair brushing – this is a great act to do right after a bath. Brushing the hair is very intimate and feels very special. If dad can make mats, even more fun! But you can still teach him!

Play battles– it can be super fun for daddy dom and little girl. Although you are warned, it could also put Dad in a tight spot – water guns, nerve amusements, plastic swords. Additionally, you can still finish the battle using a foam sword as a handy spanking tool.

Oh and don’t forget tickling. If you go for a real fight and intense tickling, be sure to negotiate it ahead of time and keep the word safe in mind. Me as dad Dom, I’m still too carried away by the struggle not to notice that I had pushed the limits.

Being dressed by daddy dom – nothing makes Little feel more helpless and little than being dressed. Having panties or a raised layer, attached shoes are an excellent trigger for Little Space. Plus, Little can still have fun by untying his shoes and asking Dad to fix them. Putting a cup on daddy’s head is the icing on the cake 😉

Play board games – remember how much you enjoyed playing them in your childhood? Choose something simple with a colorful design. Plus, you can still find board games or kinky ones yourself.

Create something – sew something, make paper objects or just draw your dad and family? If you are not a drawing lover, just use a coloring book. In addition, you can still explore finger paint, body paint, sidewalk chalk, etc.  

Watch the cartoon – it’s probably been years since you last watched Lion King? What about Cartoon Network? Complete with snacks, a pink blanket and little space is there!

Dressing – it’s probably the easiest. Getting a cute onesie or a sweet sexy outfit will create scenes naturally. If you dress together, it will create an immersive role-playing game and be a lot of fun.

Play outside – If you are adventurous you can go to children’s play areas, go to the beach to build sandcastles or even go to the movies, parks from little space can be very fun.

Pet Play – Little Girl becomes a cute little animal or maybe Dad becomes a pony. If you want to go further, you can even find a saddle for your pony. There’s also a whole furry BDSM community you can explore if you like this kind of

Read a Bedtime Story game – you don’t necessarily have to have a fairy tale book, just any fiction book. will do well.

But this is beyond the scope of this article…!

If you’re just starting out, at least be sure to spank and bondage with a silk tie … and play with at least a little!

But you should already have more than enough ideas to try DDLG in your relationships

3 – DDLG Aftercare & Debrief

Finally, I wanted to discuss the aftercare (as you would after a pussy squirting experience) which is the term BDSM to take care of emotional and physical on your partner once the scene.

The goal of Aftercare is to help you and your partner recover after a game or intense BDSM sex session. 

If your DDLG game is fun or relaxing, you may not see the benefit of follow-up, but I would still recommend that you consider the DDLG game in 3 steps: – okay, little space game, follow-up.

In BDSM, you would separate monitoring and debriefing, but in DDLG, you can easily mix the two.

Tracking is useful because it helps you get back into the real world and a special ritual to end the game can make the game much more satisfying.

Instead of being upset that the game is over, you will always look forward to your follow-up.

Cuddling is a popular way to end tracking, but it’s sweet, so it doesn’t really interrupt DDLG play.

It’s better to do something adult, which brings you back to real life – like having a cup of tea, changing adult clothes, and having a conversation.

Now it’s time to …

DDLG Debriefing

It’s always important to discuss what you liked, didn’t like, which can be improved in your game so that your next time becomes even better and more enjoyable. 

Debriefing is especially important if you’ve tried something new as an intense punishment so you know if it’s something you want to go further with. 

Debriefing is a good time for this because you are not yet back in your logical mental space, your mood is high and your memories are fresh.

Just make sure that there is a clear conclusion to play – like say, thank you, hug your partner.

And now, if you have done all that – I crown you master DDLG!

If you want a quick checklist for reference, I’ve created this handy Daddy Dom / Little Girl features map

PS If you enjoyed this guide, please send it to someone else who would benefit. I would appreciate.

But we’re not done yet …

The best DDLG communities and forums

When I first started with DDLG, it was a bit confusing – there isn’t a lot of information about it and I needed gather information the hard way.

Over time, I have found several amazing communities, where you can talk to like-minded people, ask questions and find interesting quotes, outfit ideas … etc.

Once you have joined these communities, you really feel part!

First, the best communities, better managed seemed to Reddit.

Overall, for all intelligent sexual conversations, Reddit is by far the best place to go. (here more subreddits discussion ongender).

For example, / r / sex has 1.1 million subscribers.

But we are here for the DDLG communities so let me share my top 5:

Word of warning: know that most of the SubReddits are NSFW (but super cute)

7 – DDLG Memes (25,000 likes)

There are a lot of Facebook pages and groups for DDLG, although FB is slowly prohibiting them because they don’t support sexual content there. 

You can find the cutest pages to those of sexual memes funny. But the quotes and memes from DDLG overall are a great source of ideas to do or things to say in the game DDLG

6 – DDLG Friends Community & Social Network

If you’re looking to find little ones or dads for play with DDLG Friends, this is a very friendly place to find individuals minded! 

Shortly after my registration, I could easily meet nice people! Check it out!

5 – DDLG Confess Subreddit (7.1K membres)

This is a place for daddy’s and littles to vent and give advice about any and all problems.

In my opinion the best community if you are looking for a discussion and get your questions answered.

4 — DDLG SubReddit (15.5K members)

An 18+ subreddit dedicated to those in the DD/lg (Daddy Dom/little girl BDSM dynamic) community.

Caregivers, littles, switches, and anyone curious are welcome here to share pictures, videos, start discussions and make friends!

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3 — Age Playing Subreddit (20.8K members)

A subreddit dedicate to age play roleplaying ala DD/LG: Daddy Dom, Little Girl or Big Brother, Little Sister, etc.

2 — DDLG Forum (44K members)

This is the biggest non-Reddit related forum about DDLG.

The most active sections are:

  • Little Space — a safe space for all littles to communicate and interact
  • Personals — a place to find your perfect someone if you do not have one
  • DDLG discussion — a place to talk about DDlg and related topics

1 — Little Space Subreddit (30.6K members)

A place for littles, middles, caregivers, and anyone interested in CGL, DDLG, or ABDL dynamics and lifestyles.

The biggest DDLG community online (not including BDSM…)

DDLG Quizzes, BDSM and Sex tests

Quizzes and tests are great to learn more about yourself and can give you pointers that you would not have thought of otherwise.

Here are 3 tests I would recommend.

1 – Discover Your Sexual Archetype Test

This test will help you learn your natural sexual preferences and ways you get aroused or turned off.

It is extremely helpful to take together with your partner and discuss and you will discover that your relationships will transform inside and outside of the bedroom!

2 – Discover Your Emotional Little Girl’s

This is a great little DDLG quiz to take for littles to help them figure out what is their perfect little age.

3 – What kind of Little Girl are you?

This test on other will help Little to understand which Little role fits them the most 🙂 Bratty, sweet, princessy?

DDLG Shop: Outfits, Accessories, Lingerie & Diapers

Cute DDLG Outfits, Pajamas & Onesies

The easiest way to slip in DDLG play is through cute outfits.

I did my best to filter through the fluff and find the best and highest recommended onesies and outfits available!

From the absolute cuteness to kinky sexiness, outfits can really spice up your relationships, I can attest to it! Tried and true.

DDLG Sexy Lingerie & Cute Underwear

Now, what could be a better surprise to your Daddy then sexy, kinky underwear that suddenly appears out of nowhere?

Give these as a gift to your Little Girl and she will be eternally grateful! Plus, the best thing with lingerie – both Daddy and Little can really enjoy them!

ABDL  & DDLG Play Diapers, Pull-ups & Training Pants

Why diapers are so popular between DDLG and ABDL players? Because there is nothing quite humiliating and baby-like than wearing a diaper.

The polarity is clear. When one is wearing diaper, she is a Little – no question about it. You can pick between one-time diapers and reusable pull-ups and training pants..!

Up to you! However if you are starting out, just get a pair of diapers and if you like to play


DDLG Accessories, Collars, Pacifiers, Stockings

Now, finally this is the holy grail of misc accessories starting from cute pacis to kinky furry tail butt plugs!

I told you, you can explore all 3 depths of DDLG play and maybe, just maybe this could be your introduction to BDSM as well!

This play is super fun and if you give it a chance, you will never will need to complain about your sex life and relationships going stagnant!

Bringing It All Together

Well, that is it folks! Hope this guide skyrocketed your knowledge in DDLG and you have the necessary tools to try it out!

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Oh…and if something is missing or unclear leave a comment down below! I will be more than happy to help, assist and support you!

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Or check this New? Start Here page where I organised all the articles I have published for your convenience.

Cheerio 😉

See you in DDLG playground somewhere!