7 Best Proven Ways to Enhance Sex With Sex Toys

Despite what you may have heard, sex toys are do not just for masturbation purposes.

Although most women usually buy them to improve their pleasure routine, most of them don’t realize that they can be just as effective when used as a couple.

Below we present our seven favorite ways to use couple sex toys.

Note that to simplify our explanations, these methods assume sexual intercourse between a man and a woman.

However, most of these techniques can also be easily adapted to other situations.

Let’s start!

# 1 – Insert an Anal Plug for increased pleasure in general!

This item on our list comes first because it can be applied to any sexual position.

For any sexual act does not involving the anal cavity directly, adding extra backdoor pleasure is as simple as inserting an anal plug.

Our favorite way to do this is to have an anal plug inserted during vaginal sex.

Partly because it really helps to simulate the feeling of double penetration.

But this is not the only way to use it.

You can leave it there while receiving oral sex.

(Whether it’s a pipe or cunnilingus).

In this case, your partner can reach behind and pull the butt plug to add additional stimulation.

Really all the sensation when you are already satisfied with the mouth of your partner!

Or you can just leave it without doing anything, which allows the constant tension of the butt plug to give you extra pleasure.

Blue, pink and purple stainless steel butt plug placed side by side
Simply leaving an anal plug inside of you can improve all aspects of sex!

If you do not engage in anal sex, you can also leave your anal plug for your entire sexual intercourse!

However, you decide to do it, inserting your favorite anal plug into the mix is ​​a simple way to enhance your pleasure.

# 2 – Let him control your egg vibrator while he gets his head

This is a great alternative to the “position 69” which is known to allow both partners to give and receive pleasure simultaneously.

In this case, your man can get up or lie on the bed while you get into position to give him an incredible blowjob.

But instead of doing it back with cunnilingus, it can make you happy by controlling the egg vibrator tucked inside your vagina.

(Or outside of it depending on the type of egg vibrator you have).

Diagram of a woman giving head with a remote controlled egg vibrator in her vagina


Giving your head while your man controls your egg vibrator gives a whole new meaning to the idea of ​​”giving while receiving pleasure”.

This has some distinct advantages in terms of physical positioning.

On the one hand, it’s just a more comfortable position in general compared to 69.

Instead of having to ride your partner on the bed, you can kneel at the foot of the bed and give him the head.

Or get on your knees while he stands in front of you.

While making you happy!

And second, because you can have eye contact, the sexual act is much more intimate.

When you are 69 years old, you and your partner are separated from each other.

Impossible to see the faces of others in what is generally considered an intimate setting.

However, by using the egg vibrator in this way, you can both see each other’s faces while having fun.

Eye contact simply makes foreplay much more intimate.

In the same way that the missionary position with (direct eye contact) is generally considered to be much more intimate than a position like the greyhound.

The use of an egg vibrator instead of the ordinary “69” is much more comfortable and allows for more intimate foreplay.

In any case, even those who love 69 can spice things up with this new way of giving while receiving pleasure!

# 3 – Improve cunnilingus with a clitoral vibrator (oral sex)

It’s probably the ultimate foreplay technique in general fun.

The reason is simply because the clitoral vibrator is extremely versatile.

While receiving cunnilingus, your man can obviously apply the vibrator directly to your clitoris for an extremely incredible feeling of pleasure.

In this situation, you find yourself with these sensations of pleasure at the same time:

  • Digital penetration (finger) of your vagina
  • Stimulation of the clitoris with the vibrator
  • Stimulation of the outer lips and the inner thigh with his tongue.

Pretty awesome right? But you can also use the vibrator in another way.

You see, the vibrator is also perfect for providing a “sucking” feeling to your nipples.

In this case, your man can do the following:

  • Penetrate you with your fingers
  • Suck your clit with her mouth
  • Use the vibrators to “suck” one of your nipples.

Probably sounds more amazing isn’t it?

Pink clitoral vibrator (oral sex) with white background


Despite its name, the clitoral vibrator is also the perfect sex toy to “suck” your nipples.

And that doesn’t even take into account that you also have two hands yourself.

Available to play with your (other) nipple, or even your asshole.

This versatile way of providing many forms of direct stimulation is the reason why using this sex toy in this way is so effective!

(Note that wand vibrators can also be used for a similar effect, but not as well as the clitoral vibrator – in our personal opinion

# 4 – Doggy style with anal beads

For women who really love anal sex, this is the must-have technique.

To do this technique, most couples start by inserting all the beads in the ass as a form of foreplay.

Indeed, removing the anal beads is generally much easier than inserting them.

So, the more anal beads you already have in place, the longer you can go without having to reinsert them.

Four colors of anal beads with white background


Having the full length of the anal beads inside you allows your man to easily remove them in the doggy style sex position!

Once the anal beads are inside of you, while you are in the doggie position, it can do a number of different things.

He can choose to push the anal beads out while pushing you vaginally.

This technique is much more intense.

Especially if it removes several pearls in succession, rather than just one pearl at a time.

Alternatively, he can remove the anal beads to pause between the push-up sessions.

If you personally can’t handle the intense sensation of push and anal balls coming out of you, then separating the two will be much easier to manage.

But don’t worry – it will always feel amazing because of the pleasure received both in your vagina and in your anal cavity.

(But not at the same time).

Pro tip: tell your man to slap your ass in this position and with the anal beads always in you to really increase the pleasure!

# 5 – Clitoral stimulation with penetration (classic) of the vibrator

This is a fairly classic technique, and although it is not unknown by any stretch of the imagination, certainly deserves to be mentioned.

And the reason why this is so effective is that it adds the feeling of vibrations that your typical finger penetration cannot achieve.

To do this, simply insert the vibrator into your vagina while allowing your man to suck your clitoris.

Note that the vibrator does not do not should be controlled by your man, but can be controlled by yourself if you wish.

However, if you decide to do it, it will simply change who’s hands free to help stimulate the rest of your body.

If your man controls the vibrator, you can use both hands free to play with your breasts and nipples.

Or your asshole too.

And if you control the vibrator, your man can be the one who stimulates the other parts of your body.

If you decide to control the vibrator yourself, consider placing your hand under your leg to grip the vibrator.

This is really useful if your man is really focusing all his attention on your clitoris, which gives him a little more space to work.

Diagram showing vaginal penetration via a vibrator and fingering of the clitoris


Penetrating with a classic vibrator improves sensations while you focus on other areas of your body (such as the fingering of your clitoris).

A final note is that you can also do this technique with one of your dildos if you wish!

Just note that there would be no vibrations

But if you prefer dildos to your fingers, it would obviously make sense to do it that way!

# 6 – Cowgirl with stimulation via wand vibrator

This technique is ideal for real sex with intense stimulation of the clitoris simultaneously.

To do this, simply apply the vibrator directly to your clitoris while you mount your man in the cowgirl position.

Diagram of a couple in cowgirl position with wand vibrator directed towards the clitoris


Applying a vibrator to your clitoris in the cowgirl position is all you need for incredible double stimulation during sex.

Note that the vibrating wand can be controlled either by your man yourself.

If you want a constant flow of vibrations to pass through your clitoris, you have to hold the vibrator yourself.

This is mainly because your arm usually bounces up and down with your body.

This makes it much easier to maintain constant contact with your clitoris.

On the other hand, letting your man hold the wand vibrator can be a unique and enjoyable sensation in itself.

In this scenario, your man can simply hold the wand vibrator so that the vibrating head is right at the base of his penis.

That way, you don’t necessarily feel the vibrations all the time.

But you only feel them when you start to sit on his penis.

In other words, you get intense vibration thrusts with each bounce!

Just note that it will work much better when you start most (if not all) of the movement yourself.

If you really overlap it, the wand vibrator will stay in place, which will allow brief bursts of pleasure that will certainly make you falter!

Also note that if you decide to try it with the reverse cowgirl position, you will probably have to hold the wand vibrator yourself.

Quite simply because it is much more difficult for your man to try to stimulate your clitoris when he cannot even see it.

# 7 – Doggy style with stimulation via wand vibrator

This technique is very similar to the previous one above.

The only true difference is the sexual position involved.

For this sexual position, we strongly recommend that you control the vibrator of the wand yourself.

And the reasons are partly the same as for using a stick vibrator in the reverse cowgirl position.

Without really being able to see your clitoris while pushing yourself from behind, it is much more difficult to control the vibrator.

Additionally, in doggy style it is generally much more difficult for a man to reach around and under your body to stimulate your clitoris.

Especially when he is already engaged in a heavy pushing action and needs both hands on your hips to maintain his balance.

Diagram showing vaginal penetration in doggy style with a woman using a vibrator on herself


Use a vibrator (or other!) To add intense stimulation of the clitoris while your man pushes from behind in doggy style!

The good thing about this position is that the technique works just as well for anal sex!

In fact, with his penis entering your anus rather than your vagina, you have much more room to work.

You don’t need to limit yourself to just stimulating the clitoris, but you can also stimulate the vaginal walls.

(Or even penetrate yourself with a different vibrator accordingly!)

Sex toys can improve sex like you never imagined!

I hope you have enjoyed at least some of these methods and that you plan to incorporate them very soon into your late night fun with your other.

Or at the very least, I hope you can think of new ways to incorporate the sex toys of your choice.

There are endless possibilities for sex toys.

And as a result, they lead to an infinite number of ways to improve sex itself.

So the next time you are thinking about buying a sex toy, remember that they are not just for masturbation …

… But also a way to take your sex life to new and improved heights!