I tried the swinger lifestyle with my boyfriend for the first time

My wonderful readers, today I give my blog to a great friend of mine, ‘Charlotte’, she wanted to share her swinging story with you and I am always more than happy to let her take over and share it . Take care of it! sally xoxo


Let me start by telling you a little bit about myself and my boyfriend, we are in our twenties, we have been together for 6 years and we were at a stage in our relationship where we wanted to try swing. We had talked about it for a few years, but it kept coming up in conversation and the more we started talking about it and how we would do it, the more excited we were and the more excited we were.

We both discovered that we both have a penchant for mature couples, something about kissing someone who is the same age as our parents we discovered was a big turning point for both of us. It was a relief to know that we both had the same swing wants and needs and I think it made the process a little bit easier knowing that my boyfriend wanted exactly what I was doing.

How my boyfriend and I became swingers

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After months and I mean month After researching, we decided to sign up for a website that allowed like-minded couples to meet and embark on a swinging journey without any pressure. We weren’t quite ready for the swing parties and wanted to slowly introduce ourselves to the swing lifestyle. The site allowed us to chat with other couples, get to know people and learn a little more about the swing. We realized that we had to make rules, we needed limits and we had to learn what we were both comfortable with.

We talked to a lot of people on this site, some of them just weren’t for us, some of them were way too advanced and others we just weren’t not compatible. However, we talked to a lot of people we liked, but some of them were too far away. I also canceled a few dates a few days before our date, I got too nervous and had to cancel which was not ideal for anyone involved.

We finally found a couple we really liked, they were mature and retired teachers who had been swinging for a few years, they were still semi-attractive and they had a body to die for. Her cheerful tits fascinated me and I knew that when we first spoke on Skype, I wanted to play with them. He was a little deformed but still a DILF, his cock was huge and he was so excited to go to town on my pussy and taste some young juice.

My boyfriend was super excited to see me get bitten by a man twice my age, he was also looking forward to diving into an experienced woman with fantastic breasts. We set the date and I knew I was not going to withdraw from it. We were both so excited and so excited, my pussy floated every time I thought about this couple playing with us, I couldn’t wait to see my boyfriend deep inside another woman’s pussy while her husband sucked my dry puffy clitoris.

Our first swing (woman swap style)

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I was nervous that day, I couldn’t stop worrying about not liking it and I would feel jealous forever. I always panicked that I would be jealous to see my boyfriend kissing another woman but I knew I just had to do it to even know what was going to happen.

We met in a hotel on the outskirts of town, it was pretty funny because it looked like they were our parents. In the hotel bar, the waiter was sure they were my parents until I kissed him on the lips, then he started to take care of his own business. It was electrifying to be in the bar with them knowing that whenever we wanted to, we could go up to their room and have sex.

The more we talked, the more we became touching, he squeezed my ass and she liked pecking my lips, to the delight of onlookers savoring their evening meal. Finally, we all decided that it was time to go up to their room so that we could all enjoy each other in complete privacy.

door of hotel room

My boyfriend held my hand as we climbed the elevator and into their room, as soon as we got there, all the systems worked. She laid me down on the bed and started to undress me, her husband and my boyfriend were sitting watching us. I knew my boyfriend must be rock hard inside these pants. She undressed me, slowly turning to her husband and saying “you’re going to love her beautiful young body”.

I was so wet and she caressed my body, lifting my legs and revealing my panties to the two men. I knew there was going to be a wet patch, I was soaked.

It was not bothersome at all, I was so lost in the moment. Her husband got up and walked over to me, she kissed my lips and lay down next to me. My boyfriend started to undress her, it made me weird for a split second, but when I saw her husband’s huge cock twinkling and protruding ready to enter my wet pussy and tight, all my feelings have melted. He and my boyfriend took them bluechew things when we were in the hotel bar, so I knew it was going to be a fun evening.

Woman laying on back of bed

He came down on me, his stubble rubbing against my thighs. He was so good at it, he treated my clitoris like a sex toy, he knew exactly how much pressure he needed and the moves I liked the most. I didn’t know how loud I was moaning. I watched my boyfriend playing with his wife’s breasts, they were so happy and kissable, I watched her do it with her, she ran her hands down her chest, sliding her hands in her pants, i was excited for her to try his young dick.

I could feel my orgasm build up, it never happens so quickly in general. I grabbed the sheets from the hotel with my hands as I felt the urge to come stronger and stronger. My pussy was dripping now, her tongue was deep inside me and her fingers were playing with my ass. I felt it coming and I let out a rash of orgasm, my juice covering his mouth, I trembled with pleasure and once I finished it slowly removed his tongue and fingers from my ass and thanked me. I then went down on my knees, he was facing our partners and started playing with his cock, he was so big that I didn’t even know if it would come into me after that.

I licked the tip, tasting a little sperm that had seeped in while it made me cum. I slowly teased the whole end inside my mouth and looked at him, he stroked my hair and started pushing more of his cock in my mouth, i wanted to gag it was so big but i got it down so well. I could hear my boyfriend in the background snapping while making suck his cock by the woman of this man, he moaned slightly. I increased my sucking rate, swinging my head up and down on his cock making him moan too.

I also started playing with his balls, sucking them and then putting his cock back in my mouth. He loved it, he stroked my hair while I sucked it and I couldn’t help but feel like I was realizing all of his dirty fantasies. He finally stopped me, gently grabbing my head and pulling me to kiss him. We got to bed and he lay on his back, I got on him and looked at my boyfriend who was eating his ass, she was moaning and was totally oblivious to us.

I started to lower myself gently on his cock, releasing him. Although I was soaking wet, his sex was huge and I really didn’t know if I was going to be able to get everything in, he told me it was okay, to take things slowly. He said “You’re so tight, it’s okay if it takes time”. I slowly released her cock in my millimeter by millimeter. He moaned as I released him inside me, my pink pussy lips surrounding his cock. My boyfriend was now behind his wife, kissing her ass, she was moaning and he had his hands wrapped around his waist. He looked at me and smiled and I was so excited to see him kiss this man’s wife.

Although it was hard pressure, I finally got all of his dick inside of me and started riding it, using my hips to control his dick. I pushed hard and then slowly, grinding him, he was in heaven. I used my knees to stabilize myself as I rolled my body up and down on his cock, watching him sparkle with my juice every time.

He asked if he could have me on all fours and I agreed, he slipped inside of me, I was facing my little one friend and his wife, they were now a missionary, he was slowly sliding in and out of her, enjoying every second. Her husband was at the bottom of my tight, wet pussy, kissing me slowly, it was so good when he hit my G spot. He reached out and grabbed my breasts, tugging on my little nipples, kissing me faster and louder, I couldn’t help my cry of pleasure.

My boyfriend watched us while he fucked his wife, he pushed her harder and harder, her breasts bounced and he squeezed them harder the harder he fucked her.

Her husband slipped out of my pussy and into my ass, I hadn’t done much anal but I was so horny that it didn’t matter, it slid his monster cock inside my tight ass and spanked me harder by calling me a “hot little bitch”. A few hard knocks inside my ass and he started to cum, filling me with his juice, it was so good that it filled me and slowly slipped out of me.

I knew my boyfriend didn’t want to be the first to cum because he started to cum as soon as her husband did, filling this milfs pussy with her sweet young sperm, panting hard. She played with her clit, going to orgasm as he filled her with his sperm.

It was an incredible night.

We then joined SwingLifestyle

We had the best night ever and although we saw them again, work and travel were a lot of problems, we really wanted to immerse ourselves in the world of swing. We joined every swing dating site we could find, some were just awful but we were hooked on the thrill of the swing and wanted to find other couples we could play with.

One of the online places we went to was Reddit dating, we found a few couples there and we enjoyed talking to them, but it still wasn’t the same as meeting other couples like we had.

We decided to sign up for Swinlifestyle and started going to the clubs we found there, we were both very nervous and a little clumsy at first, but we quickly settled in (more details below).

If you know of other places to meet like-minded swingers in America, let me know in the comments below, I’d love to hear your recommendations.

Go to our first club / swinger party (full amateurs)

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Photo of me getting ready before leaving.

We were both so nervous, it was so different to meet our first swinger couple. Going to a real club was much more intense, we both didn’t want to spoil it, we wanted it to go well, but having never been in this situation before, it seemed overwhelming.

We had spoken to the organizer before going to the club and she told us what we should wear, I wanted to be sure we were really well. I wore a tight black cocktail dress and under matching black lingerie and stockings, my boyfriend wore his gorgeous casual suit, he looked divine.

When we arrived we were given a drink, my boyfriend and I visited the club, the host described each room and told us what to expect and a few little guidelines. She let us explore and we found ourselves in a corner watching the events unfold.

drinks at a swing lifestyle bar

We noticed that couples came to us and asked us to share a drink with them or they asked us if we were “playing” tonight. You don’t have to do anything, you can talk, flirt and go into a room with them or you can leave it there. Everyone was very respectful of their limits and they were happy to just talk to us and let us explore.

I think the impression that people have for swingers clubs is that everyone is involved in a huge orgy but it wasn’t really like that. Some people were going to rooms, others were just talking, some were meeting in the common areas, it was like being a normal club but believe it or not, more respectful.

Going to a swingers club is like a little date, you like them, you talk, you go to a room and you fuck. It’s so much fun, it’s nowhere near as intimidating as I thought and we are definitely converts.

We were invited to a few private parties

We went to the swingers club a few times, sometimes getting involved and sometimes not. We were invited to a few private parties with some of these couples and of course you can count us, we were so ready.

The holidays were quite intimate with more than 2 or 3 couples, all in one person. We really enjoy this lifestyle and being able to explore with like-minded people has changed our lives.

The problem with lifestyle

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There are of course some issues with the swing lifestyle, it can be difficult to find regular couples to play with. This can be a disadvantage because not everyone likes meeting new people every week, it’s fun to bond with people. It was a downside for us until we started attending the private parties.

Exchanging with any couple is a big no-no for me and my boyfriend and makes them a lot of swingers. You want to find couples who you can trust, who are discreet and who would say nothing to your friends and family. It can be difficult to find the right people, but you will know once you find them. You want to be able to see them on the street and wink and not have to worry about them talking about it.

It’s so important to make sure your swingers friends are clean, sex parties and clubs often ask you to prove STD tests, but you don’t always get them. If you meet a like-minded couple, you can regularly swing with it, which gives you the advantage of not having to wear condoms and not worrying about STDs so you can actually have fun without fear .

You also want the couple you’re swinging with to be in a good relationship, so you don’t feel like a wrecker or you have to worry that they are too sticky.

I hope you enjoyed my swing experience if you have advice for me (you are never too experienced to learn more!) Or if you have any questions, leave them in the comments below -Dessous.

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